If you’re into nightlife and you think that the karaoke scene is the place to meet women, let me be the first to congratulate you on this realization. Before going forward, I suggest that you read one of the most famous articles ever published online on karaoke etiquette and behavior because it will guide you as to how to act when you’re actually at the bar.
Karaoke is Great for Picking Up
You know you’re a rockstar in your own mind. That’s why you want to take a shot at karaoke. The thing is, you’re also single and you want to meet someone while you’re there. After all, if you’re going to actually get off your tail and leave your computer dating behind, you might as well go somewhere that will give you better odds at meeting women than a regular club.
You Need an “In”
When meeting women, it’s ideal to establish some level of commonality. For example, when you’re in college, it’s easier to hook up with women in your class because it’s easy to establish that you have the course’s topic as a common factor (not to mention being in close proximity on a regular basis).
Pointers
Take advantage of the benefits of the karaoke pick-up!
Outgoing Singers
It’s easier to talk to people at Karaoke because people are often a little drunk or at least they’re a little more outgoing and ready to sing. If they can sing, they’re ready to chat. Make use your common factor: You’re both at the karaoke bar to sing.
Sing Songs That Women Love
If you sing songs that women love, they will sing along and remember you. They may even initiate a conversation with YOU after your song is done. Wow, imagine that… they’ll start up a conversation with you rather than the other way around! Don’t kid yourself, it happens all the time.
More Friends, Easier Pick-up
At karaoke, you’ll often find that people come in groups. Not just 2 or 3 people but in groups of 5 or more. That makes it easier to lean over and start talking to someone. You don’t have to worry about her feeling uncomfortable about being distracted by you because there are so many other people in the group to talk to. Also, the more crowded the bar, the easier it is to talk to people around you so make sure you sit close to people you want to meet, if possible.
Compliment Women After They Sing
A great and easy way to meet women at karaoke bars is to compliment them after they sing. Mention how you love the song or singer and thought it was a great choice. You may not have the guts to walk over to her table but if she gets up to order a drink, do the same and meet her at the bar. By the way, if you do have the courage to walk over and ask if that empty seat next to her is available for, more power to you! You may want to try talking while standing and if the conversation is going somewhere, ask if she’d mind if you sit down next to her. Make sure to politely introduce yourself to her friends.
Stay Confident, Even if You Can’t Sing
Even if you suck as singing, try! Don’t think that every girl at a karaoke bar is any better than you. On average, most women are about as good as you are.
Good Luck!
Karaoke is an easy “in” because people are naturally more outgoing and ready to party. Take advantage of that fact and go for it!
Genesis Isaac
September 11, 2009 at 11:42 am
Nice site! Thanks for this article.
david
September 18, 2016 at 8:54 am
In 2002 i met a beautiful gal whom i never thought i would be married to for the next 14 years. I sang rod stewart and she fell in love with me. I was so happy to meet what i believed was my true soulmate. Only to find out recently that i was chosen by her because of many qaulities that were valuable to her. She seduced me and got me to marry her very fast…less than 5 months! we were in love and spent every day together,happy. Then the devaluing of me began…years of fighting with her over many of her deliberate issues to divert me from sucess or even feeling important anymore. Years of up n downs…always feeling like something behind my.back was always happening but was almost trained to believe only her and move.on. yet something was always.there i couldnt.prove. as i.would stand.up.for.things i believed in and tried to.lead by example and.morally i.was punished by having sex witheld,not a single compliment or friendship in over 3 years…yes this is very devistating and serious. For the first time in 14 years i finally felt i had enough. I took a long over due vacation from work and wanted to spend time.with my wife and work.on things that needed real help.she was different to say the least. Cold,distant,dissmissive, noticed odd behavior patterns,late nite texting,etc. Finally i asked questions about her day ,things that i knew for absolute and there were the lies. Diversion like your.crazy,im.a married woman,your interagating me,etc.etc. etc. Btw…..this was one week in 14 years that i would have even thinking about doing this.never questioned her ever. But.when i said i.dont.believe.your story and i wish to check it out together the next day…..SHE LEFT ME .WAITED TWO.MONTHS AND.SENT.ME DIVORCE PAPERS.YEP JUST LIKE THAT! you see, i.stood up to a COVERT NARCISSIST and i know now i can never back down. the thought of.me.exposing her was simply.stronger than any fake feelings she ever had.for me. SO ITS NOT.TO RUIN YOUR FUN!!!! Im.even thinking of.returning.to.singing to.meet.new ladies but MAN IM GONNA.BE CAREFULL and if.i.see.any signs.of.that honeymoon phase crap again im.gonna run!!!! have fun guys but :beware: of the covert.narcissist. they are on the hunt at every karaoke.bar in the world….praying on good.strong.men with great qaulities. They will.take the.colors.rigjt off ypur.rainbow and you wont see.it coming untill.they are long.gone and your stuck in.therapy asking.how this can happen after 14 years of at least being.together.
God bless the hard working man. MAY.GOD.PROTECT US ALL.
DAVID C. (OHIO)