The 10 Biggest Dating Mistakes That Men Make

Are you tired of meeting “Fatal Attractions”? Want to meet a chick without doing a “Heisman”? Well, have no fear, your Dating Goddess is here! If you want inside information on how not to make the biggest mistakes men make in dating, then read below.

Get Out of the Lazy Boy Chair!

Here some of the biggest mistakes men make when it comes to dating.

1. Sit around complaining. If you’re lying around complaining about wanting to meet a babe, then you obviously have time to do something about it! Doing nothing equals getting nothing. It’s time to get up and take a course of action. To start, you need to learn how to attract women. To do that, it’s surprisingly simple. Get happy.
2. Feel like a loser. If you feel like a loser inside then you will surely be attracting loser women.
3. Hold grudges. If you are holding any grudges with past exes, then you will surely be attracting the exact clone of her. Want to know why bad boys at first, and let me preface “at first”, seem so attractive? They’re comfortable in their own skin, and this confidence gives off magnetic energy. Take note though, going overboard by being a jerk and pushing the arrogant “Bad Boy Card” will completely turn off a woman of quality. Once you’ve taken the time to get grounded, then it’s time to exude your yummy maleness and find those great women!
4. Assume online dating is only for freaks. If you’ve had bad vibes about online dating before, then think about this. You’re missing the easiest way to meet thousands of single women! How do you not know that the girl you randomly met at a bar last night isn’t a weirdo, either? Online dating just takes common sense, that’s all!
5. Use fake photos! First, have current up-to-date pictures of the REAL YOU. This means: No scenery shots (we really don’t care to see ANOTHER sunset picture… yawn), no hats (if you’re bald be proud of that), no sunglasses (we need to see your eyes), no holding a beer in every shot (you’ll look like an alcoholic), no ex-girlfriends cut out of the shot (tacky and we know it’s your ex), no mirror shots (it gives off a flash in the image and looks ridiculous), and no pictures of your shirts off while you’re curling dumbbells (stupid)!
6. Lie on profiles. It’s important to keep your profiles short, specific, and honest. Staying truthful will save you a lot of time, and yes, that means giving your real exact height.
7. Ignore what’s important to you. List what’s important to you. I call these my Dude Deal Breakers: A woman must live in your area, her age must be close to yours, her religious beliefs must be similar, she must meet your chemistry requirements (what turns you on physically), she must want kids or not want them, she must have a ready-made family or not (i.e., kids already around), and she must be definitely divorced (separations are emotional frying pans).
8. Forget to list the details. Go even further by expressing those other nitty gritty details such as smoking, too much makeup, tattoos, or unhealthy body images. Again, being specific with your deal breakers will be the best way not to waste anyone’s time.
9. Make assumptions. Don’t assume any woman will magically know exactly what you’re thinking. If you don’t lay things on the line in the beginning, then of course you could end up in trouble. This means specifically getting caught up with women who are flaky or “Bunny Boilers” (unstable). Ladies can be clueless about what you think are clear signals, so don’t take anything for granted. Tell it like it is. If you’re looking for a hookup, then tell her kindly that you’re not ready for anything serious. Please don’t let Mr. Happy take over and say the “I love you” words just for some action. You might wake up with a “Buttaface” the next morning who’s already planning your move-in together! Yikes!
10. Fail to mention deal breakers. If you’re looking for a relationship, then do make sure to mention your deal breakers and investigate what’s important to her as well. Seriously, you wouldn’t hesitate to ask certain questions when purchasing an Aston Martin now, would you? Why then would you not do the same with a potential mate? Just keep in mind that it’s not what you say, but how you say it. So, telling us that you’re looking for a woman who feels good about her body and enjoys committed sexual partnerships is way better than saying that you broke up with your ex because she sucked in bed. (True story, I swear!)

Remember, to avoid mistakes in dating you need to (a) get happy, (b) find the best ways to meet single women, (c) never make assumptions, and (d) always be true to your Dudeness.