“Why won’t she sleep with me?”
If you’re in a relationship and you’re not getting the satisfaction you feel you deserve, this article will help. Females are tricky creatures. Each one requires specific, individual and personalized coaxing in order to draw out her particular arousal.
In some cases, your lady friend may just not be prone to such sinful behaviour. CNN reported that approximately 1% of adults are asexual – meaning they don’t feel attracted to anyone.
Do not despair! No doubt your lady just needs the right buttons pressed. Here, you’ll find some advice on how to get your girlfriend to have more sex with you.
Most of us know that men become aroused after being exposed to visual stimuli whereas women are become aroused by how they feel. This emotional association to sexuality yields a higher degree of satisfaction, though it does make the lead up a little more challenging.
We all get our rocks off in different ways and, if you pay attention to your girlfriend, you’ll likely notice that she is excited and aroused by the strangest things.
Caretaking
Taking special care with your lover is a good place to start. It may not make much sense to us Y chromosomes, but washing the dishes and doing the laundry can be a turn on. Home cook meals and foot massages are great motivators. Find out what chores she hates and do them.
Food
Does your girlfriend really enjoy food? Does she have a favorite dessert at a favorite restaurant? Surprise her with it! She’ll be all over you… right after she’s done with that slice of cheesecake.
Sunlight
You’d like to spend your days on your bed, but she actually enjoys being outside. There’s a reason many offices and doctors promote light therapy. It provides an enormous boost to our emotional state of being. In her case, it will also help with her libido. Spend some time outdoors in the sun, then head in for some not-so-quiet time.
If this seems like strange advice, you may very well be on your way to some hanky-panky. Women aren’t like us men so don’t get upset if they demonstrates that fact. Find out what she likes and make it a priority.
When you’re aching for your lady’s love, you’re not thinking about dishes, cooking or being outdoors. But she is.
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