This article is primarily meant for guys. But! A lot of the information in this article is also good for both heterosexual women and lesbians. If you’re lonely and wondering how to meet people in college, or if you’re meeting people but need to get some “action” then this article might just be for you!
You and your boys enter a whole new world on that first day of college. You move away from home and the safety of mom ‘n’ dad and your old friends. College can be a make or break kinda place. This article can help make or break you!
Where to Meet College Girls
One way to go about it is to join a student organization. Every campus has tons of these. They can range from the chess club to student council. Find something you are passionate about and join! Aside from building your interpersonal skills and resumé, you are bound to meet women who have at least some interests that are similar to yours. Similar interests are key! By joining a club that’s of interest to you, you’ll meet women who have things in common with you.
Once you’ve joined a club, you should expect to meet on a regular basis. By showing up to these meetings you will be one of a relative handful of people. That way you can get to know people on a more personal level. That is a surefire way to get her number or at least her email address.
See if you click with some of the chicks in the group and work it from there. Sometimes the people in club seem unappealing or not that interested in your membership. Well, if that’s the case, you might wanna move on to the next club or try the classroom…
In Class
There are hotties in many classes you take but if you really want to improve your chances of meeting one, you will have to go to them. When choosing electives, pick courses that are full of women such as psychology, education, nursing, and sociology. Once in class, try to befriend these lovely women. Despite what you may think, women have raging hormones and are looking for fresh experiences the same way that guys do. This doesn’t mean that they all want to get laid, as guys do, but they are open to a lot. It’s up to you to test those waters.
The library?
In case you haven’t noticed, hanging out in the library may not be the ideal place to pick-up. On the other hand, it doesn’t stop you from practicing your technique. People go to the library on a mission of studying among other academic-related activities. What you might wanna do is always study in the same area on the same floor. A lot of people gravitate towards the same places and just recognizing people can give you an “in.”
Apartment Parties
Apartment parties are breeding grounds for meeting people. Try to bring at least one friend and go hang out! Don’t arrive right at the beginning since things are too awkward when not a lot of people are around. On the other hand, wait too long and you could miss a lot of opportunities. Don’t just sit around with a group of guys and watch the women across from you! You aren’t in high school anymore! People come to these party to meet other people. Remain assertive and confident and go have a chat with someone who catches your attention.
College Bars
Let’s face it, college is the goldmine of hookups. You will never have as great years as those in college. What makes great memories? Great pickups! Hang out at bars and clubs work it in that context. After a few rounds, both you and the person you’re interested in will be ready for some conversation and dancing.
The American college crowd is at a disadvantage because the drinking age is 21+ but Canadians can party away at 18! However, many American bars starting to let women in during ’18+ nights’. Of course men aren’t allowed in because they act like dicks and the law accounts for that. It’s their first time away from mommy and daddy so they regress into obnoxious jerks. Welcome to America!
Fraternity Parties: Are Sorority Girls Ready?
Everyone has to attend at least one fraternity party during their college years. These are kind of a combination of apartment parties and bars/clubs. They can be a great place to meet people or just have a great time.
College is a place to try on new personalities. As a freshman, you can re-invent yourself from who you were in high school. Make the necessary changes, don’t go too crazy, and remember that moderation is key! Have fun!
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